Family mediation that helps you move forward – without going to court

When families feel like they are falling apart, we provide a calm and respectful alternative to going to court that is faster, less stressful, and more cost-effective, and where you make the decisions.

Helping you reach an agreement through joint or separate mediation regarding children, finances, and separation

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Appointments are usually available within a few days No need for court Individual & Separate Meetings No need for court Online & In-person Family Mediation no need for court £500 Government Funding Available no need for court 77% of cases reach an agreement No need for court
Individual & Separate Meetings No need for court Online & In-person Family Mediation No need for court£500 Government Funding Available no need for court 77% of cases reach an agreement No need for court Individual & Separate Meetings No need for court

The Benefits of Mediation

Around 77% of cases reach an agreement, most within 2–5 sessions, with outcomes more likely to be followed than court orders. We have helped thousands of clients avoid the time, cost and stress of going to court. Mediation is increasingly the preferred approach for families because it offers:

More Control Over Outcomes

You decide the outcome, not a court.

Faster & Less Stressful

Most families reach decisions far quicker than through solicitor-led negotiations

More affordable & Voucher Option

Mediation is significantly cheaper than going to court, and the £500 voucher may apply

Always Child-focused

Discussions are always grounded in your children’s best interests

Confidential & private

Unlike court hearings, mediation is completely confidential.

Your mediator ensures the space remains safe, balanced & constructive.

What Mediation can help you resolve

Child Arrangements

Family mediation helps parents create clear plans for their children after separation. This can include living arrangements, weekly routines, holidays, schooling decisions and communication between households. The focus is always on the wellbeing of the children, helping parents agree arrangements that provide stability, consistency and a positive co-parenting relationship.

Financial Matters

Mediation provides a structured way to discuss financial matters following separation. Couples can work through property arrangements, savings, pensions, debts and ongoing financial responsibilities in a calm and transparent environment. With the guidance of a mediator, conversations stay focused on solutions and fair outcomes that allow both to move forward with clarity.

separation logistics

Separation often raises many practical questions about day-to-day life. Mediation can help couples organise arrangements such as living situations, short-term financial responsibilities and how communication will work while longer-term decisions are being made. Addressing these details early can reduce uncertainty and help both people feel more prepared for the next stage.

communication

For many couples, mediation also helps rebuild constructive communication during a difficult time. With a neutral mediator guiding the conversation, discussions can take place in a balanced and respectful way. This can reduce conflict, improve understanding and create a more cooperative foundation for future decisions - particularly when children remain part of both parents’ lives.

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Family Mediation Voucher Scheme
Eligibility for New Mediation Voucher Scheme
Up to £500 towards family mediation costs
 If your discussions involve children, you may be eligible for the Family Mediation Voucher Scheme. This government-backed scheme provides up to £500 towards mediation to help you resolve matters without going to court.

Your mediation service will apply for the voucher on your behalf, and it is not means-tested – making support accessible regardless of income.

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Mediation empowers family members to actively engage in decision-making, enabling you to have a say in shaping agreements that reflect your unique circumstances.
Unlike court-imposed rulings, we work together to reach tailor-made and flexible solutions that address the specific needs and concerns of your family.

Divorce and Separation Mediation
Our regulated and accredited mediators support families across the UK, either through in-person or online meetings
Child Arrangement Mediation
Create practical child-focused agreements that support stability, routine and wellbeing.

Financial Matters Mediation

Discuss finances, assets and housing arrangements in a structured and transparent way.
Mediation Information & Assessment Meeting

A legal requirement before most court applications – helping you understand your options clearly.

Online & In-Person Mediation
Flexible appointments, including out-of-hours sessions, offering the same calm and effective support throughout

meet your team

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Julia

Founder, Mediator & PPC
Julia is an Accredited Family Mediator and founder of Alliance Family Mediation, and a member of the Family Mediation Council and Family Mediation Association. Known for her calm, empathetic and solution-focused approach, she supports families through separation with clarity, respect and practical guidance.
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Emma

Mediator
Emma is an Accredited Family Mediator and former family solicitor, with extensive experience supporting families through separation. Drawing on her legal background without becoming legalistic, Emma brings a calm, practical and supportive approach to helping families find constructive ways forward.
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Pam

Office Manager
Pam is the Office Manager and brings extensive experience from the legal sector. With a calm, organised and compassionate approach, she supports clients from their first point of contact, ensuring every enquiry is handled with care, clarity and professionalism during what can often be a difficult time.
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what to expect

Your MIAM is a private, confidential meeting where you can discuss your situation, understand how family mediation works, and explore the best way forward with clear, supportive guidance.
Most clients reach agreement in just a few sessions, with appointments available within days.
Book a MIAM
An individual and confidential meeting where your mediator explains the process and assesses suitability
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Invite other party to attend a MIAM
If you wish to proceed with mediation, we will contact the other party . You can also obtain a MIAM court sign-off at this point if you wish
Start Joint or Shuttle Mediation
Vew options, discuss concerns and work towards an agreement at a pace that feels manageable
Reach
Agreement
We provide a clear written summary of what’s been agreed, ready for legal advice if needed

"I was literally at my wits end before I found Julia, and exhausted from arguing all the time. We finally managed to agree on decisions about our future & I can sleep again!"

Private Client

What is a MIAM
Before starting mediation, you will need to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM). If you are considering a court application, a MIAM is also usually required – unless a valid exemption applies, such as in cases involving domestic abuse.
Do we have to be in the same room?
No – you do not have to be in the same room. We offer shuttle mediation, where you and the other person are in separate online spaces, and the mediator moves between you. You won’t see or hear each other, but the process remains open, transparent and safe
What if I’d rather go to court?
If you choose to go to court, you will usually need to attend a MIAM first (unless exempt) After the meeting, the mediator can provide a MIAM certificate to confirm you have considered mediation before making your application.
Can a mediator give me a divorce?
No – a family mediator cannot give you a divorce. Mediation helps you reach agreement on arrangements such as children, finances, and separation, but the legal divorce process is handled separately through the court via an online application process.
Do we have to pay for mediation?

Legal aid is available for family mediation. This means that if you are eligible, it might be free for you and the other party. You can find further information on the Family Mediation Council Website – Family Mediation Council

Is mediation about trying to get us to stay together?
No – family mediation is not about trying to get you to stay together. Mediation is there to help you move forward, whether that means separating, divorcing, or making arrangements for the future. It provides a calm, neutral space to reach agreement on children, finances, and practical matters – without going to court.

Mediators don’t take sides, make judgements or tell you what you ‘should’ do.

Everything is focused on future solutions, not past conflict

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A calmer, clearer path forward:
Whether you’re navigating children arrangements, finances or the logistics of separation, you don’t have to do it alone.

We’re here to support you with structure, clarity and a genuinely impartial space to move forward.

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(and get the guidance you need to take the next step with confidence).

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Supporting families across the UK with online and in-person family mediation, helping you reach calm, practical agreements without the need to go to court. A more constructive and cost-effective alternative to court proceedings. Giving you the control, support and clarity to move forward with confidence.
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